How to enjoy and stay in peace during holidays

 

During holidays most people rest and interact with their families and friends. A holiday is a day/s dedicated for a celebration

 Also during the holidays many things happen and people get angry with each other due to reckless mistakes that could be avoided. Happiness and respect is what we need. Here is a simple way to enjoy and be happy on holidays:

  a) Don't be a dictator - don't try to dictate to others what they should do and what not to do unless they are kids. If he/she is a mature person don't tell him/her what to do or who to interact with unless he/she asks you.

   b) Don't judge people - It's a holiday and everyone has his/her own way to be happy. Don't try to make conclusions depending on how we utilize our time.

   c) Don't be a gossiper - Try not to spread rumours and other peoples information. Stay away from people's life and you shall be at peace. Some people can do you a harm for spreading their information.

   d) Maintain peace with yourself - Be at peace with yourself and accept yourself the way you are. Personal peace is more important than impressing others.

   You can achieve personal peace by:

•   Purchase what you are capable of and don't borrow to purchase it.
•   If they ignore your presence ,just move out.
•   Have a positive attitude about yourself.
•   Don't compete.
•   Be honesty.
•   Avoid bad company.
•  Respect others.

    e) We live once live a worthy life - People tend to misuse their selves as if they will live forever. Don't do messy or shameful things just because you are with a group of friends. Do kindness acts and be happy. Respect others

   f) If you don't know how something is done ask for guidance on how to do it. And if you are the one asked for clarification, don't be angry , instead give the clarifications with kindness and humbleness.

It's also good to note that different people like different things and should be approached differently. It's not a must that what you value is what others value or vice versa, so it's good to respect boundaries. Also you may find others who don't like questions, also here don't ask much questions. All in all give a hand of help where you can.

We wish you all the best.